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Miss Mary Blades
Teacher at Dr. Briscoe's
School
(1814 - 1846)
Mary Blades was born in 1814 on the Eastern Shore
of Maryland. She came to St. Mary's County in the 1840s, initially
as the tutor for Dr. and Mrs. Briscoe's children. In 1846, the
St. Mary's Seminary (the predecessor of St. Mary's College of
Maryland) was founded, and Miss Blades was offered a teaching
job, which she declined due to the low salary. At about the same
time, Dr. Briscoe established a boarding school on Sotterley property
with Mary Blades as teacher. The census indicates that Mary Blades
was still a resident of Sotterley in 1850, and 7 of Dr. Briscoe's
children and 4 boarders were attending the school.
It was usual in Antebellum Maryland for children to learn the
practical knowledge necessary to perform the skills they would
use in adulthood. Boys would learn how to handle an axe, shoot,
fish, and farm. Girls were prepared for household and child-rearing
responsibilities. Rudimentary schooling at home was limited to
reading, writing, and simple arithmetic. Those children who were
more fortunate had the family means to attend schools abroad,
or engage tutors at home. For wealthy planters, plantation schools
were common. Educational endeavors were usually reserved for the
young men in the family, as it was considered frivolous to educate
young women. Dr. Walter Hanson Stone Briscoe, who owned Sotterley
during the Civil War, believed strongly in educating his sons
and daughters and hired Miss Mary Blades as teacher.
Miss Blades would teach the usual geography, grammar, and history
to young girls (as young as ten) who would come from Calvert and
Charles Counties. But it has also been said that Miss Blades would
often talk about interesting books she had been given to read
by the rector of the local Parish. Mrs. Kate Thomas, who attended
the school, remembers maintaining a beautiful garden outside the
small classroom in Sotterley's front yard. She also recalls one
of her classmates, a Miss Susie Harris, who learned to play the
comb, and dance the very popular steps of the day. The girls had
quite a lot of fun amusing themselves with music and dancing,
a pastime Dr. Briscoe found foolish.
In September of 1852, amongst great religious controversy and
scandal at the St. Mary's Female Seminary, Mary Blades, an Episcopalian,
was offered and accepted the position of Principal of the School.
She resigned less than a year later and the school closed shortly
thereafter until 1858. In September 1858, Miss Blades returned
to the position of Principal, serving under the newly elected
President of the Board, Col. Chapman Billingsly, Sotterley's illustrious
neighbor.
In a book written by Maria Briscoe Croker about the Sotterley
School, Mary is described as "a martinet in the classroom
who possessed remarkable charm for the opposite sex". She
had many suitors during her years at Sotterley, including the
Revs. Hawkins and Buck, "eminent divines of the Episcopal
Church", but Mary was nearly fifty before offering her hand
in marriage.
Mary Blades left St. Mary's Female Seminary in 1860 to marry
Col. Richard Miles of Baltimore, a devout Roman Catholic. Mary
converted to Catholicism, and the two were married at the home
of the Archbishop of Baltimore. Colonel and Mrs. Miles settled
into married life at Rose Hill Farm outside of Leonardtown. Rose
Hill Farm was given to the Sisters of Charity for the establishment
of a school just before Mary's death.
Mary Blades died January 17, l886, and is buried at Sacred Heart
Roman Catholic Church in Bushwood.

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